scotiax:
Client: I don’t just think you’re sexy, I think you’re beautiful :) And I just want you to know that there’s nothing wrong with you doing this job :) I still see you as a person :) :) I still want to get to know the real you, I don’t see you as a piece of meat :)
Me: Aw, that’s very kind, thanks.
Me internally: I couldn’t give a bleeding tampon what you think abo
ut me or my job and the fact that you have to keep stressing that there’s nothing wrong with my job despite me never saying that there was shows that you don’t actually respect me or my job at all and that you actually expect me to hate myself and feel ashamed because that’s how you think I should feel being in this line of work. And also you’re not better than any of my other clients for pretending to not see me as a piece of meat, you’re actually ridiculously worse because my other clients are way more respectful than you are as they don’t demand a fuckton of emotional labor by wanting to know the “real me” but instead they treat me like a professional and respect my boundaries. You’re not special at all and you’re not going to get a “special” side of me that no one else gets to see with that bullshit so you can go fuck a Bukowski novel you patronizing piece of
shit.
